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  • Digital Archaeology: Floppy Disk #14 – DM0123.DOC


    A summary for those that haven’t been keeping up with this series:

    I found a number of 5.25″ disks at a thrift store a number of years ago (we are talking late 1990s probably). I finally got around to acquiring a 5.25″ disk drive and extracting the contents a several years back. Since then, I have been occasionally posting the content here.

    Based on the contents, at least some of these disks were apparently once owned by someone named Connie who used to run the “Close Encounters” Special Interest Group (SIG) on Delphi in the mid 1980s.

    A description of this SIG was found in a document on one of the disks: “This SIG, known as ‘Close Encounters’, is a forum for the discussion of relationships that develop via computer services like the Source, CompuServe, and Delphi. Our primary emphasis is on the sexual aspects of those relationships.”

    This service was text based and was accessed via whatever terminal program you used on your computer to dial in to Delphi’s servers. Many of these disks have forum messages, e-mails and chat session logs. All of this is pre-internet stuff and I don’t know if there are any archives in existence today of what was on Delphi in the 1980s. In any case, much of this stuff would have been private at the time and probably wouldn’t be in such archives even if they existed.

    This post includes the contents of DM0123.DOC. This file is dated September 2nd, 1985. The first part is a couple of ‘whois’ commands which lists user information for the given username. The most interesting part to me is the fact that the hardware used by the user is usually part of their profile.

    The rest of the file looks like an e-mail reading session with topics ranging from sex education to a new file library on Delphi and more.

    ===
    DM0123.DOC
    ===

    CONF>whois anticlub
    
    NAME      : RUSSELL J., JIM V.T., JACK M.
    COMPUTERS : APPLE///plus {anticlub}
    LOCATION  : LOS ANGELES, CA
    TERM-SOFT : MODEM 1200, IMAGEWRITER, TERM, ACCESS 3.
    CONF>whois davros
    There is no information on file for DAVROS.
    
    From:   YOSHI          20-JAN-1985 19:45
    To:     @MAILCALL
    Subj:   Sex Education
    
    @MailCall'ers:
    
    I believe that sex ed. should be a shared responsibility - 
    shared between the parents and the schools.  Why both?  
    Because neither is equipped to deal with all aspects of sex
    and sexuality.  Why not the church?  Well, certainly the
    church can and will provide some info and guidance.  But it
    should only be allowed to do so for its own followers and/or
    members.  In no way should the church (and here I mean any
    organized religious organization) be allowed to dictate what
    others do, nor should they be allowed to influence anyone but
    their own followers.  Anyone has a right to influence their 
    own views by listening to what some religion says, but
    religions have no right to influence those who choose not to
    listen.  But I'm here to discuss sex ed, not flame against
    organized religions.
    
    I think before I go further that I should say what I think 
    sex ed should include.  I think we all will agree that kids
    need to be taught the fundamentals of the biological aspects 
    of sex.  I also doubt that anyone here will believe that such
    knowledge will in any encourage them to have sex.  But I also
    think that kids need to be made aware of the issues of birth
    control, intimacy, and responsibility.
    
    I think that it is the job of the school to provide
    information concerning the biological side of things.  They 
    are probably best equipped to deal with the rapidly changing
    medical world and the discoveries made therein.  Also, let's
    face it - how many of us can rattle off the hormones that
    affect a woman's menstrual cycle, and which one does what and
    in what order?  I know I can't.  But people who teach sex ed.
    do know such things.  Or they should, if they 're gonna teach
    about them.  Also, schools have access to charts, diagrams,
    models, etc, that the average parent doesn't.  And this can
    really help kids see what is being talked about.
    
    But the schools aren't really the place for kids to learn 
    moral values.  I firmly believe that every person will develop
    their own set of morals, but I doubt they will do it before
    they start having sex.  (I know that my own set was still
    ill-formed when I started.)  And that's part of what parents
    are for - to teach children about the ideas of "right" and
    "wrong" and how to make decisions about which is  which.
    And parents are also supposed to help prepare their kids
    emotionally for what's in store for them.  After all, sex is 
    a very powerful thing. And its influence is very strong.  And
    that can be scary for a kid if s/he doesn't have any idea of
    what to expect.  Parents are also there to help kids learn
    about things like intimacy - what it is, why it is, and why it
    matters.
    
    Hopefully, kids will get a good view of sex and all that's 
    associated with it before they start trying it.  And the
    different viewpoints and values of those that teach them about
    it will help them form their own values.  It is unfortunate
    that you (usually) have to try sex before you really
    understand what's it's like - many people wind up getting
    hurt that way (and hurting others).  And some people never do
    learn lots of things about sex because their first experiences
    leave them hurt or scarred or frightened.  But such is life.
    We can only hope that by providing kids with as much
    information as possible that they will make the right
    decisions and not get hurt as badly as many of us did.
    
    Well, thanx for listening to me.
    
    Yoshi
    
    P.S. - As we say in the UNIX world: "Comments welcome, flames
    to /dev/null".
    From:   IDEL           20-JAN-1985 22:39
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   Close Encounters
     
    Hi, Connie:
    Wud you send me the password to the Close Encounters board?
    Thanx,
     
    >>>>IDEL/Greg
    
    WC> 
    
    
    From:   MBERGSTEIN     17-JAN-1985 21:24
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   REDSHAW
    
    Hi Connie:
    How are you?  spoke to Amy at Redshwaw the other day and told
    her about our idea.  She thought it was good and would be
    happy to work with us on it.
                                                                    I am going to try and set this up in the Users Sharing Ideas
    program which ARIAS is running this year.  Redshaw will
    provide the hardware including the necessary Async Modems.
    Also spoke to Jackie Lewis who is running that for ARIAS and
    she is going to provide us with 30 minutes. I thought we would
    explain it and then I would send a message to you, projected
    onto the overhead screen (we will have to keep it clean) and
    then you could retrieve it and send me one. Please let me know
    your thoughts on this and any other ideas you may have.
    
    One thing bothers me - there is no control key on the Wang
    2236 terminals.  Do you know how to compensate for that?
    Should we ask Delphi?  Do you think Delphi would offer
    discounts if we get a number of people to sign up? Please let
    me know what you think.
    
    By the way - is there a way for me to save this message so
    that I can refer to it after you answer?  Manual (as most)
    is not very clear.
    
    Look forward to hearing from you.          Mike.
    
    From:   DEOGBURN       21-JAN-1985 00:46
    To:     GLENN,JOHNWG,CHUCKG,DAN,KIP,@SIGOPS
    Subj:   PROGRAM LIBRARY PRESENTATION (guide will follow in a
    few days)
    
    Proposed blueprints for PROGRAM LIBRARY (Upload/Download area)
    Please refer to technical notes guide that follows.
    
    Gentleman:
    
    Below is a presentation of a proposed DELPHI product called
    PROGRAM LIBRARY from several SIGOPs.  We would greatly
    appreciate your time in looking over our presentation, and we
    remind you to feel free to ask any question you may have. 
    Once again, we ask that you follow along with the TECHINAL
    NOTES GUIDE that follows this file.
    
    Here is a sample run off PROGRAM LIBRARY with an explanation
    of all commands, uses, as well as ERROR messages, etc.
    
    **************************************************************
    
    <sig-name or delphi area> PROGRAM LIBRARY (We will use IBM SIG
    for our presentation herein.)
    
    IBM-PROGRAM LIBRARY MENU:
    
    CATALOG  List of Programs
    FEEDBACK Mail message to program owner
    INFO     Information on a program
    SUBMIT   Add/request program to/for library
    TRANSFER Download, Xdown, or Copy program
    EXIT     Leave PROGRAM LIBRARY
    HELP     HELP with COMMANDS
    
    IBM-PLIBRARY>     (hidden MAINT for level 4 manager)
    
    If CATALOG is selected or the RETURN Key is depressed then:  2
    programs available:
    Catalog
    -------
    
    #    PROGRAM NAME       SIZE    DATE       OWNER      COMPUTER
                                                          MAKE
    -- ------------------  ------  -------- ------------  -------
    1  IBM CLOCK MODULE    9/9    01-JAN-85 DEOGBURN      APPLE
    2  TIC-TAC-TOE GAME    4/4    23-JAN-85 GLENN         PIEP                                                            PIPER
    3  EAMON GAME         22/22   27-JAN-85 KIP           IBM-PC
    
    PLIBRARY>(CATALOG,FEEDBACK,INFO,SUBMIT,TRANSFER,EXIT) 1 <cr>
    
    (IF # or INFO selection is selected then:)
    Information on program # (? for CATALOG)  <===only if INFO
    selection
                                               1
      PROGRAM NAME: IBM CLOCK MODULE
      FOR THE, APPLE, COMPUTER
      SIZE: 9/9 BLOCKS
      DATE: 01-JAN-85
      OWNER: DEOGBURN
      DESCRIPTION: A ROUTINE FOR DISPLAYING THE TIME IN LOCATION 1,
    59 ON THE
      SCREEN AT ALL TIMES. 10 LINE MODULE MODIFIED FOR USE ON THE A
    PPLE COMPUTER.
     
    PLIBRARY>(CATALOG,FEEDBACK,INFO,SUBMIT,TRANSFER,EXIT)
     
     IF SUBMIT is selected THEN:
     (3) status levels (O)pen,(R)ead-only,and (P)rivate
    If  (O)  user will be allowed to add direct to program library.
     If (R) user's submitted program must pass review of the SIGOP 
    (Use MAINT)
     If (P) user must enter a password to add direct to program lib
    rary
     
     PASSWORD:  (if P status)
              E...Invalid password!
              E...More than 3 tries, please continue, your program 
    will be snet
                  to the SIGOP for review.
     
     TRANSFER <upload mode> MENU:
     
     COPY  file from your workspace
     UPLOAD file from your computer
     XUP   use XMODEM protocol
     EXIT
     HELP
     
     TRANSFER <upload>:          (MAINT may be entered here by leve
    l 4 if desired)
     
     If COPY THEN:
     COPY from file? TEST.DAT
     ...file copied!
                      if '?' entered: Please enter the file name in
     your workspace
                                      that you would like to SUBMIT
    .
    (Same as COPY in WRITERS' CORNER)
     
     IF UPLOAD THEN: (Same as UPLOAD in WRITERS' CORNER)
     
     IF XUP THEN:    (Same as XUP in WRITERS' CORNER)
     
     at any rate, the following follows after file is COPIED,UPLOAD
    ED, or XUPED.
     
     Please enter CATALOG label:
     Name of PROGRAM: IBM CLOCK MODULE   '?' Enter name to place in
     catalog
                                          E...entry to long (20 cha
    cter MAX.)
     Computer MAKE: APPLE                '?' Enter computer make yo
    ur program is for.
                                          E...entry to long (12 cha
    cters MAX.)
     Enter short DECRIPTION: This is a.....
     (use TEXT-ENTER MODULE LIKE in INFO ARTICLE or MAIL to SIGOP)
     a CONTROL-Z to end, or CONTROL-C to cancel!
    (NOTE:  System fills in DATE, SIZE, and catalog #)
    PRLIBRARY>(CATALOG,FEEDBACK,INFO,SUBMIT,TRANSFER,EXIT)
      Please use REVIEW in MAINT of IBM-PROGRAM LIBRAY for submitte
    d program
      by MEMBER: GLENN on: /TIME
                           [/TIME and hereon is SYSTEM TIME placed 
    by the system]
     
      Thanks
     
      Uncle Max
     
     o REVIEW
     
      1 program awaiting review                   (special Mask rou
    tine over MAIL)
     
                                                                   
        REVIEW
      #    From       Date          Subj
      1   GLENN     01-JAN-85    CHESS Game
     
    ACTION:<[A]dd;[R]eturn,[S]ave;[V]iew;[N]ext>: View 1    (Read 1
    )
     
                                                                   
        REVIEW #1
     
      TO:DEOGBURN                01-JAN-85    23:02
    FROM:GLENN
    SUBJ: CHESS GAME
     
    PROGRAM NAME: CHESS GAME
    FOR THE, ATARI, COMPUTER
    SIZE  : 2/2 BLOCKS
    DATE  : 01-JAN-85
    OWNER : GLENN
    DESCRIPTION: A GAME CALLED CHESS FOR THE ATARI COMPUTER. 48K RE
    QUIRED AS WELL
    AS A JOYSTICK. IN EXECUTE LOAD FORM.
     
     10 REM CHESS GAME
     20 POKE 765,22
     30 GRAPHICS 0
     40 SETCOLOR 2,0,4
     50 PRINT "CHESS GAME"
     .
     .
     .
     400 END
     
    ACTION:<[A]dd;[R]eturn;[S]ave;[V]iew;[N]ext>: Add,Return,Save
     o Add
       Level 4 gets:
                    ...Adding (uses REVIEW mail file as load file f
    or library)
                    ...Owner notified     (sends below Dmail messag
    e to owner)
     
      TO:GLENN
    FROM:DEOGBURN
    SUBJ:REVIEW action on submitted program
     
    Dear GLENN:
     
    Your program: CHESS GAME submitted on: 01-JAN-85 was added to t
    he IBM-PROGRAM
    LIBRARY on:/TIME
     
    Thank you for your program!
     
    MEMBER,DEOGBURN, SIGOP for the IBM SIG.
     
     o Save
       Level 4 gets:
                    ...Saving (uses FILE Future scheme like in MAIL
    )
                    ...Owner notified     (sends below Dmail messag
    e to owner)
     
      TO:GLENN             01-JAN-85  23:02
    FROM:DEOGBURN
    SUBJ:REVIEW action on submitted program
     
    Dear GLENN:
     
    Your program: CHESS GAME submitted on: 01-JAN-85 was saved for 
    future use
    of the IBM-PROGRAM LIBRARY on:/TIME.
     
    Thank You for your program, and I will notify you again when fu
    ther action
    is taken on your program.
     
    MEMBER,DEOGBURN,SIGOP for the IBM SIG.
     
    o  Remove
     
        LEVEl 4 gets:    ....User notified!
                         ....Program has been returned to user!
                         ....Review files updated
     
    User Gets:
     
        TOL:DARTHVADER
      FRomOM:DEOGBURN
      SUBJ:REVIEW action on Submitted program
     
    DEAR  DARTHVADER
     
    Your program: <program-name> submitted on:<date> was returned t
    o you
    in a seperated mail message at:/TIME
     
    READSON:   File has to many .....
     
    Thank you for your program, and please feel free to re-submit t
    o other
    areas of DELPHI by forwarding the returned program mail message
    .
     
    MEMBER, DEOGBURN ,SIGOP for the IBM SIG.
     
    User Gets:
     
        TO:DARTVADER
       FROM:DEOGBURN
      SUBJ: RETURNED sumitted program listing
     
    *****RETURNED COPY OF YOUR SUBMITTED PROGRAM   ?/DATE**********
     
    end!
     
    ***************************************************************
    ********
    This ends the PROGRAM LIBRARY presentation, we hope you found t
    his
    presentation of interest, please be reminded that it is not int
    ended
    to impose on the desingign teams of GVC, rather offer insight from
     the
    SIGOPs end.  Please feel free to use any ideas presented here i
    n any
    project.  You will note that many tasks in PROGRAM LIBRARY are 
    the
    same or similiar to application modules presently on DELPHI.  R
    easons
    include: Makes it easier for GVC staff to assembly, rather rwrit
    ting
    a new application, and because these modules were observed as t
    he best
    modules tha could handle such an application, further it was fe
    lt that
    these modules, with some enhancements in some tasks, yowere at it
    s highteight.
     
    Thank You
     
    SIGOPS
    UAP SUGGESTION GROUP
    GVC STAFF
    GENERAL DELPHI USERS
    
    WC> 
    Sorry, there is a problem opening your file 0123.MAIU (=43).
    <<read error="" 29="">>
    
    WC> llist d,	m0123.mail
    I don't understand the term "LLIST D    M0123.MAIL" in this
    context.
    
    WC> list dm0123.mai
    
    
    From:   FTF        ESS,CABUYS,MONTE,TRINA,WEB,IVY,MARTI,JSARAS
    Subj:   ?
     
    Its late.
    And yet the phone rings
    once again.
    "Dinner. tomorrow!"
    But I'm busy.
    How about the next night?
    "No. Tomorrow!"
    But I can't.
    And thats the end of that.
    The hum of a dial tone.
    But it doesn't end.
    Later it rings again.
    And then comes the mail.
    "Why?"
    And I don't have an answer.
    How can I when I don't know the question!
     
    Lately, it rings alot,
    late at night when most are asleep
    except for me
    and all that is calls out
    for that release.
    Late at night,
    when that silent phone
    begins to ring and I know
    it would be easier to not
    answer - but I still do.
    "Why?"
    Well, why not thursday?
    "I can't then."
    Lunch Friday?
    "Doctors appointment. Sorry!"
    So why do you call at 1 am?
    "I gotta go."
    hum.......
     
    "Lets go out to the hot tubs!"
    Geez! its 2 am and they don't
    stay open that late!
    "Come over Saturday..."
    Ok.
    "Oh. I'm sick. Next week?"
    Ok.
    "My ex got married today!"
    Gosh. how do you feel?
    "Relieved I didn't have to go!"
    Wow.
    Don't you feel anything?
    "Yeah. But only in private..."
    "Why didn't you call?"
    What!
    To talk to your answering machine?
    Gimme a break!
    "But I always call back!"
    Right. at 1 am.
    
    
    From:   DAVROS         20-JAN-1985 12:44
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   ACCESS TO THIS SIG
     
    This SIG interests me.  How do I go about obtaining fuller acce
    ss?
     
    
    
    From:   ANTICLUB       20-JAN-1985 17:12
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   CURIOSITY
     
    I JUST CAME ACCROSS THIS "FRIENDSHIP" THING ON THE NETWORK
    AND I AM CURIOUS WHAT IT IS AND WHAT IT'S FOR AND HOW TO JOIN.
    I AM A 36 YEAR OLD ARTIST AND I MANAGE AN "UNDERGROUND"
    NIGHTCLUB IN L.A.  A MEMBER OF PERFORMING ARTS NETWORK (PAN)
    UNDER SPECIAL INTEREST GROUPS.  THANKS. JACK (ANTICLUB).
     
    
    
    From:   IDEL           20-JAN-1985 22:39
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   Close Encounters
     
    Hi, Connie:
    Wud you send me the password to the Close Encounters board?
    Thanx,
     
    >>>>IDEL/Greg
    
    
    From:   AVATAR         22-JAN-1985 00:08
    To:     @FUN
    Subj:   more foolishness
     
     
    SHIFTING SANDS INSURANCE COMPANY
    JERUSALEM
    INTEROFFICE MEMO
     
    To: Home Office, Jerusalem
    From: Bethany Sub-office
    Att: Regional Claims Manager
     
    Re: Yehoshua Bar-Joseph
        Death Claim/Nissan 33
        Final Report
     
    Dear Sir:
     
         As you know, our office has been investigating the
    life insurance claim presented by the widow of Joseph of
    Nazareth, House of David (Mary, by name).
     
         The details of the claim as first presented concern a
    juvenile life policy on their son, Yehoshua, taken out in
    Jerusalem some 33 years previous.  Policy dates, coverage
    amount and premium payments have all been verified by the
    underwriting department of your good offices.  Our office
    is concerned only with verification of death and payment of
    the claim.
     
         The first report of the claim appeared to be a routine
    matter of verifying the cause of death (crucifixion) and
    then paying the amount of the policy.  There were overtures
    made by some (relative to a possible suicide), but I see no
    point in raising this issue.  The two-year clause for
    denial based on this has expired.  Secondly, our legal
    department has pointed out, quite succinctly, that suicide
    by crucifixion would be no small matter to prove.
     
         The investigation uncovered a well-witnessed event,
    including a statement by a Centurion who was an eyewitness
    to the entire proceedings.  He quoted the 'deceased' as
    saying: "Now it is finished," at which time the Centurion
    states that the insured expired.  He has witnessed a number
    of crucifixions and although he is not a physician his
    testimony does carry weight.
     
         Following this, the funeral proceedings were done with
    some haste, due to the upcoming Sabbath.  It was at this
    point in the investigation that our adjuster began hearing
    talk about the deceased raising himself from the dead.
    Considering that Yehoshua had a substantial cult following,
    the adjuster gave little import to this talk.  In an
    attempt to wrap up the investigation, he interviewed eleven
    of the twelve close disciples.  Their stories and
    statements contained numerous contradictions, not the least
    of which were statements to the effect that he died on the
    date in question, followed by statements to the effect that
    they had talked to the deceased three days later.  It
    appears that they have their chronology reversed.  The
    twelfth, by-the-bye, committed suicide about the time of
    the Yehoshua crucifixion.  There is a separate report
    forthcoming on that matter and no payment will be made on
    that claim.
     
         Normally, we would have made payment at this juncture,
    but the investigator asked for additional time.  To be
    blunt, he suspected a fraud.  A number of reliable
    witnesses began to talk, advising that there was no
    question of having seen and talked with the deceased
    *after* the alleged crucifixion.
     
         Contact was then attempted with P. Pilate.  The latter
    refused to be interviewed, indicating that he had washed
    his hands of the entire matter.  We did write to him
    subsequently raising anumber of points on what was recorded
    by him officially.  He refused to clear up any
    discrepancies and merely wrote on the bottom of our letter,
    "What I have written, I have written."  We simply can't
    push the issue with him any further due to his obvious
    connections.
     
         Finally, we were fortunate enough to obtain two
    statements from well-known and respected citizens, who
    report having supper with Yehoshua several days after the
    alleged death.  They were on their way to Emmaus at the
    time.  Both make excellent appearances as witnesses.  Their
    statements are enclosed for your perusal.
     
         Also enclosed are the statements from the eleven
    disciples.  They are coherent, except for John's, and
    despite their disagreements on a few minor points, they
    establish one of two possibilities ( I cannot personally
    see any others.)  First, he was never crucified. In that
    situation, we owe nothing.  Secondly, he was crucified, and
    then raised himself from the dead.  The second possibility
    is an absurdity but if it were so, I'm afraid we have a
    legal problem of unique difficulty.  I say this because we
    took a statement from his mother, Mary.
     
         She maintains that he was crucified and appeared to
    her and his disciples three days later.  Our adjuster,
    after getting her to sign the statement, politely turned
    her claim down.  When she asked why, the adjuster pointed
    out that the policy only pays in the event of death.  As he
    was packing his briefcase and preparing to leave, she very
    shyly indicated that she had a question, and since he was
    the policy expert, that perhaps he could answer it.
     
         She then stated that Yehoshua had, in fact, died.
    What she wanted to know was this: "Is there any exclusion
    in the policy which says that the beneficiary will not be
    paid if an insured is able to raise himself from the dead?"
     
         The adjuster was quick enough mentally to say that
    he would check it out with the home office and get back to
    her.  Here is our problem.
     
         Suppose it happened the way his mother stated?  If he
    did in fact raise himself fromt he dead, what's to prevent
    him from doing it a second time?  If he does it again,
    we'll have to pay again.  Then?  If he does it again, we'll
    have to pay again.  This policy is a guaranteed renewable,
    non-cancellable contract.
     
         We'd appreciate your advice on this, as things are not
    shaping up well.  I would make one suggestion if Mary
    continues to push this claim. This is a bit too complicated
    for our house attorney.  Why not farm this out to Saul over
    in Tarsus?  He's as sharp as they come and can probably
    delay this until it dies a natural death.
     
     
                             Warmest regards to all,
     
     
     
                             Caiaphas Bar-Annas
     
    cba/cc/enclosures (11)
    
    
     
     
    WC>
    
    
    From:   DAVROS         20-JAN-1985 12:44
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   ACCESS TO THIS SIG
     
    This SIG interests me.  How do I go about obtaining fuller acce
    ss?
     
    
    WC>                            
    

  • Digital Archaeology: Codex (Floppy Disk) #10 (part 14)


    A summary for those that haven’t been keeping up with this series:

    I found a number of 5.25″ disks at a thrift store a number of years ago. I finally got around to acquiring a 5.25″ disk drive and extracting the contents a while back. Since then I have been posting the contents here.

    Based on the contents, at least some of these disks were apparently once owned by someone named Connie who used to run the “Close Encounters” Special Interest Group (SIG) on Delphi in the mid 1980s.

    A specific definition of this SIG was found in a document on one of the disks: “This SIG, known as ‘Close Encounters’, is a forum for the discussion of relationships that develop via computer services like the Source, CompuServe, and Delphi. Our primary emphasis is on the sexual aspects of those relationships.”

    This service was text based and was accessed via whatever terminal program you used on your computer to dial in to Delphi’s servers. Many of these disks have forum messages, e-mails and chat session logs. All of this is pre-internet stuff and I don’t know if there are any archives in existence today of what was on Delphi in the 1980s. In any case, much of this stuff would have been private at the time and probably wouldn’t be in such archives even if they existed.

    This post includes the contents of POLANSWE.DOC dated October 26th, 1985. These are Connie’s answers to some poll questions. Only the answers are here not the questions but you can figure out most of them.

    See the previous post here.

    ===
    POLANSWE.DOC
    ===


    Rod,
    
    For what they are worth, here's my answers:
    
    1.  I do not currently have a subscription to an 'adult' magazine but
    once had one to "Playgirl".
    
    2.  I have purchased adult magazines at newstands, convenience stores,
    or bookstores.  But what I have to go thru to muster up my courage to
    do so is something else! 
    
    3.  yes.
    
    4.  Regardless of the magazine, when I first get it, I go thru page by
    page, scanning without stopping to read any one thing in great detail.
    Then the magazine is put aside until there is more time to read it
    thoroughly.  <which explains the 4 ft high stack of magazines by my bed!> <grin>
    
    5.  "Playgirl" is the most frequently purchased magazine but I have on
    occasion purchased others, particularly when someone indicates
    something of interest in one that I want to investigate further.
    
    6.  The pictures do very little for me but all the rest apply.
    
    7.  All the the listed items but not a lot of time was spent doing so
    as far as items b, c, d are concerned.
    
    8.  Although I answered yes, I have one comment to make here:  I would
    pick up such a magazine to view or read, *provided* I was alone at the
    time.  For instance, there are times (such as lunch hours) when I
    could read such, provided I took it with me to work, but would not
    because of what others I work with might think about my doing so.)
    
    Now is anyone else game to answer these questions?
    
    -Connie
    

  • Digital Archaeology: Codex (Floppy Disk) #10 (part 8)


    A summary for those that haven’t been keeping up with this series:

    I found a number of 5.25″ disks at a thrift store a number of years ago. I finally got around to acquiring a 5.25″ disk drive and extracting the contents a while back. Since then I have been posting the contents here.

    Based on the contents, at least some of these disks were apparently once owned by someone named Connie who used to run the “Close Encounters” Special Interest Group (SIG) on Delphi in the mid 1980s.

    A specific definition of this SIG was found in a document on one of the disks: “This SIG, known as ‘Close Encounters’, is a forum for the discussion of relationships that develop via computer services like the Source, CompuServe, and Delphi. Our primary emphasis is on the sexual aspects of those relationships.”

    This service was text based and was accessed via whatever terminal program you used on your computer to dial in to Delphi’s servers. Many of these disks have forum messages, e-mails and chat session logs. All of this is pre-internet stuff and I don’t know if there are any archives in existence today of what was on Delphi in the 1980s. In any case, much of this stuff would have been private at the time and probably wouldn’t be in such archives even if they existed.

    This post includes the contents of DM1027.DOC dated October 27th, 1985. It appears to be an e-mail reading session. At the top is a list of the messages, who they are from and to, the date and the subject. Below that is the contents of all of the mail. There are 64 messages.

    See the previous post here.

    ===
    DM1027.DOC
    ===

     
    dir
    
    
                                                                                MAIL
    
        # From                 Date         Subject
     
        1 BOS1A::RODM          16-OCT-1985  Read - Set your watch!
        2 BOS1A::CABUYS        17-OCT-1985  RE: Read - Set your watch!
        3 BOS1A::PRINCESS      19-OCT-1985  hi
        4 BOS1A::ELLISCO       19-OCT-1985  ztest
        5 BOS1A::CABUYS        19-OCT-1985  RE: hi
        6 BOS1A::CABUYS        19-OCT-1985  
        7 BOS1A::RODM          19-OCT-1985  
        8 BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF    20-OCT-1985  what's new.
        9 BOS1A::CABUYS        20-OCT-1985  contest winners'
       10 BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF    20-OCT-1985  RE: contest winners'
       11 BOS1A::CABUYS        20-OCT-1985  I love you!!!
       12 BOS1A::CABUYS        20-OCT-1985  reply to WILL1 regarding age question
       13 BOS1A::RODM          20-OCT-1985  Please!!!!!!!!
       14 BOS1A::CABUYS        20-OCT-1985  RE: Please!!!!!!!!
       15 BOS1A::SERVICE       21-OCT-1985  Here is some possibly delayed mail from 
    
       16 BOS1A::WIL1          21-OCT-1985  
       17 BOS1A::PRINCESS      21-OCT-1985  sorry about yesd.terday's talk,
       18 BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF    21-OCT-1985  reply to letter from arne
       19 BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF    21-OCT-1985  letter from arne
       20 BOS2A::RODM          22-OCT-1985  repeating!
       21 BOS2A::RODM          22-OCT-1985  again I must say!
       22 BOS2A::RODM          22-OCT-1985  and again!
       23 BOS2A::RODM          22-OCT-1985  and AGAIN!
       24 BOS2A::RODM          22-OCT-1985  and AGAIN!
       25 BOS2A::RODM          22-OCT-1985  one MORE time!
       26 BOS1A::CABUYS        23-OCT-1985  explanation
       27 BOS1A::CABUYS        23-OCT-1985  next 5 Trivia questions so I don't forge
    
       28 BOS1A::CABUYS        23-OCT-1985  I'm all done now and no longer /gagged!
       29 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  you should *always* have mail waiting!!!
    
       30 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  saying it all again
       31 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  I repeat
       32 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  thisisfun
       33 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  i should be working! <grin>
       34 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  it's raining <sigh>
       35 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  I wish I were there with you!!!
       36 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  looking forwardt. to our next *appointme
    
       37 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  wonder howlong I cando this before I get
    
       38 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  I hate this IBM keyboard!!
       39 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  mmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!! -have I told you late
    
       40 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  hope f.subject line'snot too long
       41 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  wish I knew how many dmails I've sent!!!
    
       42 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  thank *YOU* for a wonderful lunch!!!
       43 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  just being with you makes my day!!
       44 BOS1A::CABUYS        25-OCT-1985  oh well - I've l.played longe. enough - 
    
       45 BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF    25-OCT-1985  ?
       46 BOS1A::CABUYS        26-OCT-1985  conference transcript
       47 BOS1A::RODM          26-OCT-1985  Working on SIG - GREAT!
       48 BOS1A::RODM          26-OCT-1985  dumpted!
       49 BOS1A::RODM          26-OCT-1985  Don't forget to prepare comments!
       50 BOS1A::CABUYS        26-OCT-1985  RE: dumpted!
       51 BOS1A::CABUYS        26-OCT-1985  surprised at my feelings
       52 BOS1A::CABUYS        26-OCT-1985  RE: Don't forget to prepare comments!
       53 BOS1A::CABUYS        26-OCT-1985  hi
       54 BOS1A::CABUYS        26-OCT-1985  special delivery - hope you don't object
    
       55 BOS1A::CABUYS        26-OCT-1985  sig contract
       56 BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF    26-OCT-1985  RE: sig contract
       57 BOS1A::RODM          27-OCT-1985  RE: special delivery - hope you don't ob
    
       58 BOS1A::RODM          27-OCT-1985  Resend!
       59 BOS1A::RODM          27-OCT-1985  Special Delivery for you!
       60 BOS1A::RODM          27-OCT-1985  Withdrawn - awaiting comments
       61 BOS1A::CABUYS        27-OCT-1985  RE: Resend!
       62 BOS1A::CABUYS        27-OCT-1985  RE: Resend!
       63 BOS1A::CABUYS        27-OCT-1985  RE: Withdrawn - awaiting comments
       64 BOS1A::CABUYS        27-OCT-1985  my answer to your forum message
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    
    
        #1          16-OCT-1985 23:16:46                           
                 MAIL
    
    Fr
    om:   BOS1A::RODM     
       
    To:     CABUYS,R
    ODM        
    Subj:   
    Read - Set your watch
    !
    
    My Darling Conn
    ie,
    
    Set you body
     clock by this
    
     
        This is a mature discreet adult SIG.....
     
                                     
                            9
                    9       ^      9
                            | 
               9            |            9
                            |
                            |
                            |
            9       <-------O               9
     
     
     
               9                         9
     
                    9              9
                            9
     
                     NO sex until 9:00 !
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
                  
                 (In other words ... NOW!!!!)
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #2          17-OCT-1985 06:12:04                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     BOS1A::RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   RE: Read - Set your watch!
    
    Lover!
    
    That's really cute! I want it in the Forum! Do you mind?
    
    I love you!
    
    counting the hours now!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #3          19-OCT-1985 16:07:29                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::PRINCESS    
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   hi
    
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #4          19-OCT-1985 17:20:31                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::ELLISCO      "Dick Evans"
    To:     @SIGMGRS.DIS
    Subj:   ztest
    
    Everyone on my list of managers & assistants has access to ZTEST now.  The
    flags set are ADE(F)V.  Only the assistants have the "F".  If I missed anybody
    let one of us know.  If you need other flags, let one of us know.
    
    Thanks
    
    Peter & Dick (PEABO & ELLISCO)
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #5          19-OCT-1985 22:13:29                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     BOS1A::PRINCESS,CABUYS      
    Subj:   RE: hi
    
    hi to you too!
    
    I really do miss you!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #6          19-OCT-1985 22:16:07                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   
    
    Well as you can see I made it home ok.
    
    I had a good cry after we parted - it lasted until I got to Starke.  Otherwise
    trip home was without problems.
    
    Feeling kinda down now so not sure if/how long I'll stay on line.
    
    By the way, I was able to pick up the radio station until I was just outside of
    Starke.
    
    I love you!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #7          19-OCT-1985 22:18:08                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::RODM        
    To:     BOS1A::CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   
    
    I know what you mean abt CRY!!!
    
    Bk to Co!
    
    I LOVE YOU!!!!!!
    
    Morthove,
    
    Rod
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #8          20-OCT-1985 00:01:34                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF  
    To:     CABUYS,JOHNMYSELF  
    Subj:   what's new.
    
    think we ought to clean up the what's new corner again.
    could you take care iof it?
    thanks.
    keep in touch 
                            Love John
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #9          20-OCT-1985 13:41:46                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     JOHNMYSELF,CABUYS      
    Subj:   contest winners'
    
    I assume you'll go ahead and send in the checks to Delphi with appropriate
    notations of the accounts to be credited.
    
    You've done a great job with this.  Thanks!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #10         20-OCT-1985 17:31:15                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF  
    To:     BOS1A::CABUYS
    Subj:   RE: contest winners'
    
    But of course My love.  In fact I have the checks and 
    the letter cut.
    * * * * * letter * * * * *
                                     SLG Associates
                                     61 West Street
                                Hyde Park, Mass., 02136
                                    20 October, 1985
    
    
    
    General Videotex Corp. / Delphi
    3 Blackstone Street
    Cambridge, Mass., 02139
    
    Subject: payment(s).
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    Dear Service Rep;
    
      Enclosed please find the checks to be applied to accounts as follows:
    
            #0101 in the amount of $6.00 to be applied to the 
            account of TIGLON.
    
            #0102 in the amount of $4.00 to be applied to the
            account of FSF.
    
      If possible, please itemize this payment on their statements with
    indication of its source - SLG Associates.
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
                                       Thank you;
                                       John P. Yerger, Asst. Manager
    
                                       Close Encounters Sig
    
    * * * * * I thought you'ld approve * * * * *
    
    
                                            KISSES 
    
    to your neck, arms, breasts, legs, and your sweet warm box.
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    
    
    
    
        #11         20-OCT-1985 17:55:26                             
               MAIL
    
    From
    :   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   I love you!!!
    
    The weekend was too perfect.  It stills hurts so much to be away from you.
    
    I've tried all day to get my mind onto other things, to find something of
    interest to keep me busy, but it's an impossible task.
    
    Your teddy bear kept me company all night long and I haven't done that in ages!
    
    I remember all the beautiful things from this weekend and deep down I really
    feel good and happy about that. But I feel something that's difficult to put
    into words - something like an overwhelming longing for us to be together, to
    get on with *our* life, to continue making as many beautiful memories for each
    other as we possibly can <even when we both know that it can't and won't be *all* so perfect as has been!>
    
    Enough of this! I want the feeling that was there when you told me I was
    *sparkling* to be there now and I don't know how to recapture that.
    Perhaps - in time.....
    
    Until then, I love you and I will always love you!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #12         20-OCT-1985 21:59:11                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     @MGRS.DIS,CABUYS      
    Subj:   reply to WILL1 regarding age question
    
    Willie,
    
    According to the membership agreement, this sig is open to those over the age
    of 18.  There are a variety of reasons behind this decision.  
    
    I personally have no objection to your being there.  However I do have a 
    contract with Delphi that says the sig is for those over 18.
    
    What I plan to do, if there is enough interest expressed by those under 18,
    is to set up several sections in the sig that will be for them only.  We
    would need someone of that age group to sort of manage that section.  That
    someone would have to understand that I am the sig manager <in other words, the boss!><smile> and it would be up to that section manager to keep things
    moving in the forum as well as try to get as many eligible members into the
    sig for that section.
    
    Until that is established, I have no choice but to abide by the terms of my
    contract with Delphi, which says that if I discover someone under the age of
    18, I restrict their access to the sig.  Your age was discovered by the
    Profile you posted.
    
    I don't doubt your intelligence or knowledge.  Unfortunately that can't change
    things right now.
    
    If you are interested in running a section for those under 18, please let me
    know.  I would also need to know the following:
    
    1.  The user names of 20 people currently on line under the age of 18 who tell
    you they are interested in supporting such a section within this sig.
    
    2.  What name you would like to give to the section.
    
    3.  Six words that identify the section:  examples could be - Under 18, kids
    only, teenagers, terms like that.
    
    4.  I would need a list of topics that you would post within the forum section
    for discussion by your group with examples of the first messages written out,
    ready to post.
    
    5.  After I had this, I would have to get in touch with Delphi's sig 
    administrator and have him make the necessary changes within the sig here for
    the new section, etc.
    
    If you are not interested in running the section and know someone who is, please
    
    have them contact me.
    
    Thank you.
    
    -Connie <cabuys>, Close Encounters Sig Manager
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #13         20-OCT-1985 22:51:02                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::RODM        
    To:     CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   Please!!!!!!!!
    
    Darling why cant I send to you!!!???????
    
    YOU PROMISED NEVER TO GAG!!!!!!
    
    
    Love
    
    Rod
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #14         20-OCT-1985 22:52:07                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     BOS1A::RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   RE: Please!!!!!!!!
    
    Honey,
    
    I did *not* break my promise to you!
    
    I was in Workspace, UPLOADing a file and the /gag is automatic.
    sigh.
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #15         21-OCT-1985 19:21:23                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::SERVICE     
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   Here is some possibly delayed mail from Sunday evening, 13-October.
    
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE" 13-OCT-1985 19:34
    To:     BOS1A::RODM,CABUYS
    Subj:   RE: survey
    
    Darling, as soon as I can, I will post the survey since I did not get to
    ask the questions during the conference.
    
    I love you!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE" 13-OCT-1985 19:20
    To:     BOS1A::JOEY,CABUYS
    Subj:   RE: Whereabouts
    
    Thanks, Joey!  Don't work too hard and do have a wonderful vacation!
    
    <hugs>
    -Connie
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE" 13-OCT-1985 19:33
    To:     BOS1A::RODM,CABUYS
    Subj:   RE: missed again!
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I do wish you had called me at the office.  I miss you so much and want to
    hear your voice!
    
    I got up at 8 AM on Sat., took a jacket to be altered, took the car thru the
    car wash, then got to work about 10 am.  I was able to get most of what I
    wanted to accomplish done, but when my boss came in around noon, there was
    a lot of interruption in his efforts to "help" me with something. sigh.
    
    I left the office and got home about 4:30, bringing a *lot* of work home with
    me to do on the computer here.  I worked on that until 3 minutes before
    conference time, then logged on for the conference.
    
    I sent to John that you had left me a list of questions for the conference.
    Then I made an open comment to the same effect.  Both comments were
    ignored and I was so aggravated with him and so exhausted it was all I could
    do to stay til the end of the conference.  He just seemed so unaware that
    I had said something about your questions twice - and I wish I knew why he
    was so distracted at that particular time.
    
    I got up at 8 AM Sunday, took laundry to the laundromat, naturally had to
    have trouble with two of the machines which weren't working right which caused
    me to be there longer than I had hoped.  I brought the wet laundry home to
    dry, then had to go to the ATM, Zayre's to pick up some things, to grocery
    store for Cokes, and filled the car up with gas.
    
    For some time now, I've been looking for a place that I could use to teach
    Dennis how to drive.  I found such a place when I was returning home from
    the errands.  As soon as we had put stuff away, I told Dennis to get ready to
    go with me but would not tell him where we were going! <i'm learning to be like you!><grin>  He was so curious!
    
    We got there and I pulled up, stopped the car, and asked him what he knew about
    driving.  He always told me he knew how but once on the spot the truth came out.
    
    Anyway he had his first driving lesson which lasted about an hour before we
    returned home.  He did quite well actually and we both felt great about it!
    Sunday's will probably be on the only time we can use this area but that should
    do for a while.  I can't believe I actually did this! Do you have any idea
    what that means to me?!?!?!
    
    Then I returned to working on stuff from the office since Delphi was not up
    and running. sigh.  I had planned to do so
    much on line today but it will now have to wait.  I'm rapidly approaching the po
    int of total exhaustion!
    
    I love you and miss you so much! I even tried once to call the office hoping
    you would be there. sigh.  I can only hope that you can call soon!
    
    I love you!!!!!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #16         21-OCT-1985 19:53:53                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::WIL1        
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   
    
    
    
    Well, maybe, but I will just do the same thing in the sig me and my freiends
    are making, it will be out soon, if you are 20 arourr over, you can not be in it
    .
    (HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!)
    
    I hope you are happy!
    
    Bye,
    
    Wililie (WIL1)
    
    p.s. nice of you!
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    
        #17         21-OCT-1985 19:59:20                           
                 MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::
    PRINCESS    
    To:    
     CABUYS
    Subj:   sorry about yesd
    terday's 
    talk,
    
    was most uncomfortable conversation I have had
    with you in a long time.  I wguess we will get
    used to it, but is hard not sharing things
    with you. <sigh> 
    love,
    
    Peggy
    <hugs>
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #18         21-OCT-1985 21:12:50                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF  
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   reply to letter from arne
    
    Actually, I was a bit at fault in not simply letting the matter ride.
    However, a simple number would have been preferred.
    
    As for the age limit, we well know the problems in that regard but 
    are none the less responsible for seeing that 'to the best of our
    abilities' we enforce them.  
    
    Why bother?  Very simple.  If we fail to make the attempt, then we can have 
    trouble from those parents who don't want 'us' exposing their kids to
    (possibly) sexually related material.  It could become a problem.
    
    Of course we should be on speaking terms.  Damn poor sig manager I'ld
    be if I let something so trivial interfere with members and their
    abilities to communicate. (especially with the management).
    
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #19         21-OCT-1985 21:13:32                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF  
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   letter from arne
    
    From:   BOS1A::ARNE         21-OCT-1985 20:55
    To:     JOHNMYSELF
    Subj:   age
    
    ~GGee, John, this has really gotten out of hand.  On that infamous noghtight it
    wasn't my intention to antagonize anyone -- I honestly (if misguidedly)
    thought my jokes about age were at leaast mildly amusing, and was stunned
    when y'all took such a hard-liner approach to the matter.  Naturally I was
    hurt at being snubbed, and dashed off a couple of irate letters-to-the-
    editor, but all this public apologies stuff -- well, it's just so unnecessary.
    
    As far as age limits in the sig , well the present set-up has y'all trying
    to enforce rules which any reasonably intelligent 11-year-old could circumvene,
    so why bother?
    
    I hope we're at least approaching speaking terms.
    
                                    -- Arenne
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #20         22-OCT-1985 04:05:45                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS2A::RODM        
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   repeating!
    
    From:   BOS1A::RODM          1-OCT-1985 00:07
    To:     CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   Love send
    
    My Beloved Darling Connie,
     
    Here I go again!, but this poem is OBVIOUSLY a PRIVATE one!:
     
     
    At first there was only a few words on a screen,
     
    And even those were only occasionally seen.
     
    Then I sent questions of panic on the phone.
     
    Oh how could I have possibly known,
     
    That after meeting face to face,
     
    My heart would pound at such a pace,
     
    And that a person who was once a curiousity,
     
    Would become the focus of my very destiny.
     
     
     
    Love and life have shown me what now must be my destiny,
     
    And what endless love and happiness will soon be given to me.
     
    But there are yet some commitments and decisions to be made,
     
    And some pain and prices to be paid.
     
    When all of that is finished and done,
     
    A love lasting the rest of my life will be won.
     
    I know you are feeling the pain of waiting,
     
    But our life together will be worth the getting.
     
    I cannot now be all you would have me to be,
     
    But when that day comes you will have ALL of me!
     
     
    Darling,  I risk such enormous pain for both of us in refering to these things 
    but  I can no longer deny my feelings although I don't know if it will  be  by 
    discovery  or resolve that these things will come to be but I admit and  await 
    our destiny!!!
     
    With all of me I love you,
     
    Rod
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #21         22-OCT-1985 04:07:07                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS2A::RODM        
    To:     CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   again I must say!
    
     
       IIIIII      LLLLLL       OOOO  VV          VV  EEEEEEEE
         II          LL        OOOOOO  VV        VV    EE
         II          LL       OO    OO  VV      VV     EE
         II          LL       OO    OO   VV    VV      EEEE
         II          LL       OO    OO    VV  VV       EE
         II          LL    LL  OOOOOO      VVVV        EE
       IIIIII      LLLLLLLLLL   OOOO        VV        EEEEEEEE
     
     
     
     
              YYYYY    YYYYY       OOOO        UUUU  UUUU
                YY      YY        OOOOOO        UU    UU
                 YY    YY        OO    OO       UU    UU
                  YY  YY         OO    OO       UU    UU
                   YYYY          OO    OO       UU    UU
                    YY           OO    OO       UU    UU
                    YY            OOOOOO         UUUUUU
                  YYYYYY           OOOO           UUUU
     
     
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #22         22-OCT-1985 04:08:20                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS2A::RODM        
    To:     CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   and again!
    
     
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
    OVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
    U !    I  LOVE YOU !
     I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE  YOU !    I  LOVE YOU !
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    
    
    
    
    
        #23         22-OCT-1985 04:09:48                                        
    MAIL
    
    From:   BOS2A::RODM        
    To:     CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   and AGAIN!
    
     
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #24         22-OCT-1985 04:11:06                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS2A::RODM        
    To:     CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   and AGAIN!
    
     
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #25         22-OCT-1985 04:11:40                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS2A::RODM        
    To:     CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   one MORE time!
    
     
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
     >>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<>>>>>>>>>> I  LOVE  YOU <<<<<<<<<<
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #26         23-OCT-1985 17:55:55                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   explanation
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    Don't be upset with me if you come in and find me on line and /gagged. I'm
    trying very hard to catch up on capturing the forum to disk.  Last message
    in file you captured is 165 which means I have a lot to do! <grin>
    
    I love you!!!!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #27         23-OCT-1985 18:22:04                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     JOHNMYSELF,CABUYS      
    Subj:   next 5 Trivia questions so I don't forget!
    
    1.  On average, how many pelvic thrusts does a man deliver during intercourse?
    
    2.  According to the Kinsey Report, during what activity do some individuals
    become unconscious for a matter of seconds or even for some minutes?
    
    3.  What is the most successful porno file of all time?
    
    4.  What famous hooker said:  "My method is basically the same as Masters and
    Johnson, only when they charge thousands of dollars it's called therapy.  I
    charge $50 and it's called prostitution."
    
    5.  How many people are involved in a "menage a cinq">?
    
    Answers
    =======
    
    1.  50-100
    2.  orgasm
    3.  Deep Throat
    4.  Xaviera Hollander
    5.  Five
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #28         23-OCT-1985 18:23:37                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   I'm all done now and no longer /gagged!
    
    
    and I love you very, very much!!!!!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    
    
    
        #29         25-OCT-1985 14:37:48                                        MAIL
    
    From:
       BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     ROD
    M,CABUYS      
    Subj:   you should *always* have mail waiting!!! <grin>
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #30         25-OCT-1985 14:38:00                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   saying it all again
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #31         25-OCT-1985 14:38:13                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   I repeat
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #32         25-OCT-1985 14:38:27                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   thisisfun
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #33         25-OCT-1985 14:38:42                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   i should be working! <grin>
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    
    
    
        #34         25-OCT-1985 14:38:57                           
               
      MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A
    ::CABUYS       "CONN
    IE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    
    Subj:   it's raining <s igh>
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #35         25-OCT-1985 14:39:34                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   I wish I were there with you!!!
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #36         25-OCT-1985 14:40:02                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   looking forwardt to our next *appointment* !!!!!
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #37         25-OCT-1985 14:40:40                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   wonder howlong I cando this before I get caught?!?!?! <grin>
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #38         25-OCT-1985 14:40:54                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   I hate this IBM keyboard!!
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #39         25-OCT-1985 14:41:16                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   mmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!! -have I told you lately that I love you!?!?!?!
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #40         25-OCT-1985 14:41:32                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   hope fsubject line'snot too long
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #41         25-OCT-1985 14:41:53                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   wish I knew how many dmails I've sent!!! <giggle>
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #42         25-OCT-1985 14:42:16                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   thank *YOU* for a wonderful lunch!!!
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    
    
        #43         25-OCT-1985 14:42:33                           
                 MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::
    CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RO
    DM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   just being with you makes my day!!
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #44         25-OCT-1985 14:42:55                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   oh well - I've lplayed longe enough - back to work
    
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I love you!!!
    
    Love, Connie
            
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #45         25-OCT-1985 22:18:58                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF  
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   ?
    
    Roses are red,
    
    Violets are blue;
    
    Can't wait to get you in bed,
    
    and make sweet love to you.
    
                    Licking you in all the warm wet places.
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #46         26-OCT-1985 12:43:05                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     JOHNMYSELF,CABUYS      
    Subj:   conference transcript
    
    Lover, while you and I make sweet passionate love <smile>, do you think yoyu
    could also upload the transcript of the *second* conference on sexual
    positions to me so I could edit and submit to database?
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #47         26-OCT-1985 14:47:26                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::RODM        
    To:     CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   Working on SIG - GREAT!
    
    My DELICOUS Darling Connie,
    
    I can tell you are working on the sig 'cause I can't send!
    
    I wait patiently and anxiously!!!
    
    I LOVE YOUY !!!!!!!!!!!
    
    Love,
    
    Rod
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    
        #48         26-OCT-1985 16:19:42                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::RODM        
    To:     CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   dumpted!
    
    My Beloved Darling Connie,
    
    I was dumped by call-waiting and after answering the call and logging on
    you both <you and john> were gone!
    
    If you haven't already you {_need to call John and talk to him there is 
    something very wrong there!
    
    I hope I am wrong but I don't think so!!!!
    
    PLEASE let me know what you find out when you talk to him !!!
    
    He obvious
    ly is also chasing your body!!!
    !!!! <but i'm afraid there is more!>
    
    
    Until our next contact my Darling!!!!
    
    Love,
    
    Rod
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #49         26-OCT-1985 16:33:10                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::RODM        
    To:     CABUYS
    Subj:   Don't forget to prepare comments!
    
    From:   BOS1A::RODM          6-OCT-1985 15:03
    To:     CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   list
    
    My Dear Connie,
     
    The  last  couple of conferences have dealt with sexual positions and  I  have 
    followed the discussions very closely but for several reasons could not put my 
    thoughts  and experiences together concisely enough nor can I enter data  fast 
    enough  or  even  tell it to you fast enough to keep up with the pace  of  the 
    conferences so I am formulating several lists and messages which might via the 
    forum or articles be of help to the SIG, its conferences, or its membership in 
    the future discussions.
     
    The  first  of  these is the following list of coital positions  that  I  have 
    experienced  with  varying  degrees of success.  This list  does  not  contain 
    positions for oral sex,  anal sex,  mutual masterbation,  or manual /  digital 
    <finger not computer>  stimulation,  nor does it include the  advantages  or 
    disadvatages of the positions listed but if I can develope the courage all  of 
    those lists and references will soon follow.
     
    I  hope  that when seen this list will make everyone aware that the  positions 
    are variations and many of them are actually very common,  others in the  list 
    are  NOT  real common and usually are related to  some  event,  occassion,  or 
    circumstance.
     
    Afterall  Life itself is filled with variations and often those variations are 
    the beauties, treasures, or 'flowers' of life!
     
    ENOUGH!! - Now the List!:
     
    Position    Woman's Position         Man's Position         Relative Positions
    ________    ______________________   _____________________  __________________
                                                                
    1           Lying on back            Horizontal above       Face to face
    2           "  "  "   "              "  "  "  "  "  "       Opposite(Head-toe)
    3           "  "  "  side            Beside                 Face to face 
    4           "  "  "   "              "  " (Forming 'X')     Back to face
    5           "  " / kneeling over     Kneeling               Man behind Woman
    6           Sitting/Kneeling atop    Lying on back          Facing
    7           "   "   "    "   " "     "  "   "  "            Woman facing away
    8           Squatting over           "  "   "  "            Facing
    9           "    "    " "            "  "   "  "            Woman facing away
    10          Sitting on Man           Sitting(leaning back)  Facing
                                         (man can reach woman)
    11          "    "  "  "             "  "                   Woman facing away
    12          Squatting over           "  "                   " "   "  "   "  "
    13          "    "    " "            "  "                   Facing
    14          Leaning onto table       Standing               Man behind Woman
    15          Lying on table           "   "                  Man facing Woman
                                                               (holding her legs)
    16          Leaning over low back    "   "                  Man behind Woman
                chair or arm of couch
    17          Standing (leaning back)  "   " (leaning back)   Facing
    18          "   "  (leaning forward) "   "                  Man behind Woman
     
    Note: Positions 17 & 18 are limited but what a way to end a mutual shower!!
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #50         26-OCT-1985 20:03:27                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     BOS1A::RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   RE: dumpted!
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    It was difficult for me to talk anyway when you and John were on line but
    only because Chuck kept wondering in and out of the room. sigh.
    
    I called John just a little while ago.  Peg is away this weekend <she had not told me about this because we don't talk stu>; also last night some kids
    egged his house and car and put dirt into gas tank of car.
    
    I should have realized that Peg was away - that's when he always comes on to me
    or as you say "chasing my body".
    
    Unfortunately I was quickly informed that I had called at not too good a time
    because it was time for 'Airwolf' on TV.  oh well.
    
    Rod, I love them both very much, but obviously they can't be there for me when
    I need them and I can't be there for them if/when they need me.  I value their
    friendship very very much, yet see that I'm losing it and I don't really know
    how to recover it.
    
    Guess we'll <you and i> will be talking soon about this again.
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #51         26-OCT-1985 20:07:21                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   surprised at my feelings
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    This is going to sound very strange and it's not something I want you to make
    a big fuss over but if I tell you about it it will help me to deal with it.
    
    Strange as it seems, I feel rejection just because John acted as tho watching
    Airwolf on TV was more important than talking to me.  He said we could talk
    later tonight or tomorrow and I agreed,  but I *really* wanted to talk then.
    
    Am I being foolish? selfish? inconsiderate of him? or what?
    
    Am I going to feel the same way when you have something to do at a time when
    I want to talk to you?
    
    I certainly hope not! I don't like the way I feel right now!
    
    But I do know one thing -
    
    I love you very very much!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #52         26-OCT-1985 20:18:13                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     BOS1A::RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   RE: Don't forget to prepare comments!
    
    Here goes, Sweetheart!
    
    #1 - my favorite because of the "protected" feeling it gives me- however with
    you and I, I am always concerned about the pain you may feel.
    
    #2 - sounds interesting enough but I just can't picture it - very will to give
    it a try tho.
    
    #3 - never experienced this but willing to try
    
    #4 -  I think you know how I feel about this one! <grin>
    
    #5 - *if* this is one we tried before, I want very much to try it again! <grin>
    
    #6 - would take a lot of work to get me ready for this one, dear.
    
    #7 - same as #6
    
    #8 - same as #6
    
    #9 - kinda like floating around in the water, huh? <grin> can't imagine us
    doing it but wish we could!
    
    #10 - wish we could try this too
    
    #11 - willing to give this a try once or twice before I can say much more about
    it
    
    #12 - same as #11
    
    #14
    
    
    
    
    13 - same as #11
    
    #14 -
           definitely willing to try this and soon!
    
    #15 - not really interested in trying this - I don't trust the table to hold
    the weight.
    
    #16 - same as #14
    
    
    
    #17 - don't think I'd handle this very well at all.
    
    #18 - same as #17
    
    
    <how long will it take for these comments to come back 'haunt' me?><grin>
    
    I love you!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    
    
        #53         26-OCT-1985 20:25:16                           
                
     MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     PRINCESS,CABUYS      
    Subj:   hi
    
    Dear Peggy,
    
    I had planned to call you this weekend for a long chat but for obvious reasons
    can't.
    
    I am so very sorry that we are both so uncomfortable with each other these days
    that we can no longer share what is important to us.  If I am being too
    sensitive or selfish about this, please forgive me.
    
    We were always able to talk things out together before this.  I really do need
    to do that now.  I also need to talk about Rod, to share with you and John
    both about what is going on in my life.  But I can't do that either, until
    you and I have this behind us.
    
    I really want you to know that I still care very much about you and that we are
    still friends.  I do miss you so!!
    
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #54         26-OCT-1985 21:08:14                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   special delivery - hope you don't object!
    
     
    305  26-OCT 21:06 Open Forum
         sex positions & me
         From: CABUYS       To: ALL
     
    This is a tough one for me to share, but I'm going to give it my best.
     
    The conferences we've had here on sexual positions have lead to a lot
    of discussion between my lover and I, as well as some experimenting.
     
    He has tactfully pointed out to me that I don't like certain positions
    because I don't want to be put into the position of having to be the
    one responsible for the success of such.
     
    Although I've presented him with a number of reasons why certain
    positions don't work for me or appeal to me, he's sure it is because
    of my lack of confidence.  He's also very sure that we will work
    together to overcome this.
     
    What I'd like to hear from others here is why you *don't* like certain
    positions or why they don't work for you?
     
    (Honestly, I'm not looking for *new* reasons to add to my list, but it
    would be comforting to know that others might have similar
    likes/dislikes or problems.)
     
    Anyone willing to give this a try?
    r
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #55         26-OCT-1985 21:10:50                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     JOHNMYSELF,CABUYS      
    Subj:   sig contract
    
    John,
    
    Did you ever get our copy of the signed contract back from Kelly before her
    departure from Delphi?
    
    If not, I'd like to get it ASAP.  If so, would you send me a copy please?
    
    Thanks, lover!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #56         26-OCT-1985 21:11:53                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF  
    To:     BOS1A::CABUYS,JOHNMYSELF  
    Subj:   RE: sig contract
    
    
    will check but don't recall getting anything back.
    will check into it Monday if not.
    kiss
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    
    
    
        #57         27-OCT-1985 01:18:31                                       
     MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A:
    :RODM        
    To:     BOS1A::CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   RE: special delivery - hope you don't object!
    
    My Beloved DELICOUS Darling Connie,
    
    I hope this message brings you many viewpoints and some answers to your question
    s
    
    By this message I mean the one you posted in the forum about sexual positions.
    
    The one thing that your message said that I didn't realize and I hope I can 
    correct is that I referred to your inconfidence but I didn't mean you to think
    that I thought that the other reasons you give are not valid ones I agree that 
    they are but I thought the MAIN reason was the fear on your part about having th
    e
    'principle' role.
    
    If I conveyed to you that I thought you lack of confidence was the only reason
    then I am 'undermining' your confidence and not helping it and I would NEVER wan
    t 
    to do that!!!
    
    I do think that whatever you would like for us to try together we can do!!!!
    
    I wrote this on-line and made a mess - I will edit and resend it!
    
    My Darling I love you so very VERY much and want more than anything YOUR
    happiness and pleasure in ALL that we do!!!!
    
    Love,
    
    Rod
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #58         27-OCT-1985 01:50:54                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::RODM        
    To:     CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   Resend!
    
     
    My Beloved DELICOUS Darling Connie,
     
    I  hope  this  message  brings you many viewpoints and  some  answers  to  your 
    
    questions.
     
    By this message I mean the one you posted in the forum about sexual positions.
     
    The  one  thing that your message said that I didn't realize and I hope  I  can 
    
    correct is that I referred to your inconfidence but I didn't mean you to  think 
    
    that  I thought that the other reasons you give are not valid ones I agree that 
    
    they  are but I thought the MAIN reason was the fear on your part about  having 
    
    the 'principle' role.
     
    If I conveyed to you that I thought you lack of confidence was the only  reason 
    
    then  I  am 'undermining' your confidence and not helping it and I would  NEVER 
    
    want to do that!!!
     
    I do think that whatever you would like for us to try together we can do!!!!
     
    I wrote this on-line and made a mess - I will edit and resend it!
     
    My  Darling  I  love  you so very VERY much and want  more  than  anything  YOUR
     
    happiness and pleasure in ALL that we do!!!!
     
    Love,
     
    Rod
     
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #59         27-OCT-1985 02:22:44                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::RODM        
    To:     CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   Special Delivery for you!
    
     
    308  27-OCT 02:16 Open Forum
         RE: sex positions & me (Re: Msg 305)
         From: RODM         To: CABUYS (NR)
     
    WOW!
     
    You are presenting a chalanging question!
     
    I guess the first thing that comes to mind that I would share is that anything
    as intimate as sexual positions must be the mutual adventure of BOTH partners
    and never be something imposed by one on the other.
     
    The next thing is that whatever objection one partner has to a particular sexual
    
    position, act, or anything shared that objection should be recognized as a valid
    
    one and that objection answered by BOTH and an agreement hopefully reached!
     
    Now for the question as to positions NOT liked.
     
    I am going to NOT be specific but say that there several positions I find
    unfavor
    able for reasons of discomfort, <physical and psychological> not expressive of
    love and passion, or just not possible for me to perform!
     
    In all of the cases above I feel justified in my objections and trust my partner
    
    will be respective of my objections.
     
    In my history such objections were sometimes NOT respected and that can cause
    something that may be between or a combination of humiliation and pain to my
    person or ego.
     
    I hope I NEVER cause that discomfort for my Love!
     
    I hope that posses some answer or support for you and anyone else.
     
    Rodm
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #60         27-OCT-1985 03:53:53                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::RODM        
    To:     CABUYS,RODM        
    Subj:   Withdrawn - awaiting comments
    
    My Beloved C
    Re,
     
    I deleted my message from the forum because I was afraid it might be taken as
    a rebutal and that can not be!!
     
    After you read my comment let me know how appropiate you think my comment is
    to be placed in the forum.
     
    Love,
     
    Rod
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
        #61         27-OCT-1985 08:20:54                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     BOS1A::RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   RE: Resend!
    
    Honey,
    
    You have in no way undermined my confidence.  If you had, that particular
    message would never have been posted.
    
    Granted, I know me well enough to know that I lack confidence in a lot of
    areas but since you've entered my life, my confidence has increased in so
    many ways that I'm not even sure you understand all the changes that have
    occurred within me! 
    
    I was so worried about posting that message, thinking that you might object
    because I had taken something very personal and intimate between us and
    "gone public" with it.  I hoped that I had worded the message in the right
    way to convey only the fear I have of being in the 'principle' role.
    
    And you did hit the nail square on the head when you made that observation!
    And I've acknowledged it. So with your loving help, we overcome, right?
    <smile>
    
    I do love you so very, very much!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    
        #62         27-OCT-1985 08:22:27                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     BOS1A::RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   RE: Resend!
    
    Sweetheart,
    
    I almost forgot one thing - the reason I posted the message is not so much as
    whether *I* can get some answers, as much as it is hoping to help others
    realize they may be faced with something similar.
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    
        #63         27-OCT-1985 08:24:20                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     BOS1A::RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   RE: Withdrawn - awaiting comments
    
    Darling,
    
    Please re-enter your message in the forum for me.
    
    I love you!
    
    Love,
    Connie
    
    P.S.  The next message to you is what I plan to answer your message with when
    you've re-entered it.  Ok?
    
    I love you!
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    
        #64         27-OCT-1985 08:31:57                                        MAIL
    
    From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
    To:     RODM,CABUYS      
    Subj:   my answer to your forum message
    
    I've been very lucky!  My partner and I have the mutual respect and love for
    each other that allows us to talk about *EVERYTHING* including our deepest
    feelings about the mutual adventure we are sharing.
    
    Love, support, understanding and communication between lovers is so important
    but too often we get so wrapped up in other things that this all gets put on
    hold.
    
    In this particular incident I have to admit that I *thought* I was doing very
    well in keeping the real reason for objecting to various positions well hidden.
    You can imagine my shock when his comment hit the nail square on the head!
    Now that I've acknowledged the real reason, he and I can go on together to
    hopefully overcome this.
    
    
    
    MAIL> 
    
    No more messages
    
    
    MAIL>