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From: alanurm@tonto.DEC (If you could see me now.....)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Women asking men...
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Date: Fri, 3-Aug-84 10:41:55 EDT
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Posted: Fri Aug  3 10:41:55 1984
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Well.... I'd have to say yes, women do ask first nowadays. I know that I have
been approached first several times during the last 5 years or so. However, in
every case, it was only after the female had determined that there might be an
interest in her. They weren't always sure but the usual comment I got was that
they had seen me around, found out that I was available, and then decided that
they were going to manage to set up a situation in which I would be receptive.
some things that they did were to go to lunch with the same group of people I
was going with, invite me to a party, show up at the same going away party for
someone, etc. These were mostly ones I worked with. Also, sometimes in lounges
I would be asked to dance (slow dances), and then be asked about my status, and
things like that. On occasion I would be asked what I was doing later on (that
night) and so on.. 

.....decwrl!rhea!tonto!alanurm