Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 exptools 1/6/84; site ihuxu.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxl!houxm!ihnp4!ihuxu!hoff From: hoff@ihuxu.UUCP (GYPSY -jah) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: "forward women" Message-ID: <367@ihuxu.UUCP> Date: Fri, 3-Aug-84 08:27:51 EDT Article-I.D.: ihuxu.367 Posted: Fri Aug 3 08:27:51 1984 Date-Received: Sat, 4-Aug-84 02:22:46 EDT References: <441@ames.UUCP>, <1260@nsc.UUCP>, <2942@alice.UUCP> Organization: AT&T Bell Labs, Naperville, IL Lines: 16 On the question of women asking men out......... Yes, I have much experience in this also, and it is all mine so it, too is biased. But I have found it is the best approach to dating. Men hate to get rejected also. And then there's the question of the Shy One, who seems to be a terrific gentleman you'd really like to get to know. Chances are he'll take a long time before calling. My "ask them out" advice is with one catch.... I've found it best to do the asking with a casual tone, not at "point blank." If you're turned down, both you and the gentlemen are able to save face, still feel comfortable. I wouldn't trade my dating experiences for the world, both good and bad! Gypsy (jah) ihnp4!ihuxu!hoff