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From: jalote@uiuccsb.UUCP
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Subject: Re: Another dumb(?) question - (nf)
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Date: Sun, 5-Feb-84 22:33:13 EST
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Posted: Sun Feb  5 22:33:13 1984
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uiuccsb!jalote    Feb  5 13:04:00 1984

Go ahead and do not worry about using her too much. As pointed out before,
do not imply any commitment, if you do not wish that. That does not necessarily
mean that you expliciltly 'clarify' your situation the first time you
really date her. Just do not imply anything which you do not mean mearely to get
what you want, which is where I think the process might become morally wrong.

It's fine if you do not want her sexually. But, if you do, again the same
reason holds. You will not be using her if she is not falsily led to beleive
something which you are not willing to offer her. Keep in mind that women also
enjoy men, and beleive me most are not looking for a commitment with everyone
they date.

You are in a somewhat good situation. Since she is going to go away soon, the
relationship will fade off, so you do not have to worry about breaking off. So,
GO ahead and share and enjoy.

Pankaj