Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site iuvax.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!floyd!harpo!ihnp4!inuxc!iuvax!saj From: saj@iuvax.UUCP Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: getting over it... - (nf) Message-ID: <152@iuvax.UUCP> Date: Wed, 15-Feb-84 15:31:26 EST Article-I.D.: iuvax.152 Posted: Wed Feb 15 15:31:26 1984 Date-Received: Fri, 17-Feb-84 02:18:38 EST Sender: saj@iuvax.UUCP Organization: Indiana U, Bloomington Lines: 23 #N:iuvax:1900003:000:841 iuvax!apratt Jan 12 22:13:00 1984 <::> The note about recovering from close relationships reminded me of this: I was at a dinner forum about relationships in college, and got thirty seconds' worth of advice to live and love by: "When you are in a close relationship, you tend to focus your life around it. Then, when the relationship ends (bless you if it doesn't!), that focus is gone, and your life seems devastatingly empty. The way to avoid that calamity is to remember that, in each relationship, there should be three parties: ME, YOU, and US. As long as you have ME, you'll survive intact when YOU and US go away. Make sure the other person feels the same way, or s/he will take the eventual downfall as hard as ever, and that's bad for both of you." Just thought I'd share that. An ounce of prevention... -- Allan Pratt ...ihnp4!inuxc!iuvax!apratt