Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!we13!ihnp4!inuxc!pur-ee!uiucdcs!uiuccsb!jalote From: jalote@uiuccsb.UUCP Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Another dumb(?) question - (nf) Message-ID: <5399@uiucdcs.UUCP> Date: Sun, 5-Feb-84 22:33:13 EST Article-I.D.: uiucdcs.5399 Posted: Sun Feb 5 22:33:13 1984 Date-Received: Thu, 9-Feb-84 05:20:59 EST Lines: 20 #R:pucc-h:-48400:uiuccsb:15600015:000:901 uiuccsb!jalote Feb 5 13:04:00 1984 Go ahead and do not worry about using her too much. As pointed out before, do not imply any commitment, if you do not wish that. That does not necessarily mean that you expliciltly 'clarify' your situation the first time you really date her. Just do not imply anything which you do not mean mearely to get what you want, which is where I think the process might become morally wrong. It's fine if you do not want her sexually. But, if you do, again the same reason holds. You will not be using her if she is not falsily led to beleive something which you are not willing to offer her. Keep in mind that women also enjoy men, and beleive me most are not looking for a commitment with everyone they date. You are in a somewhat good situation. Since she is going to go away soon, the relationship will fade off, so you do not have to worry about breaking off. So, GO ahead and share and enjoy. Pankaj