From: utzoo!watmath!jamcmullan Newsgroups: net.social Title: Re: dirty pictures Article-I.D.: watmath.4409 Posted: Tue Jan 25 11:34:01 1983 Received: Fri Jan 28 06:04:31 1983 I am a woman. I dislike it very much when I go into a man's office and he has "those pictures" up on the wall. There is at least one man here who has such pictures on the wall. I feel that the office is not the place for sex and keep wondering what such a man is thinking of the women at the office. Can I maintain a professional relationship with such a man or is he going to wander into my office after 6 and start making lewd suggestions? These feelings are reinforced by several experiences where this (or something similar) has happened. To be fair, men who don't have dirty pictures on the wall have also made improper suggestions, "accidentally" brushed against me, etc. I would object if my office-mate, woman or man, wanted to put up such pictures (of either sex). Again, I don't think it's appropriate for the work- place. I used to share an apartment with a woman who put up a collage of playgirl centrefolds in the living room. This I just laughed off as her creation, when I had guests over. I figured one's home (cottage/boat/etc) was the appropriate place for this kind of thing, if you are going to do it. I am a timid soul, so I don't say anything about the pictures in other people's offices to them. The gigantic breasts remain in place. I did quietly remove a poster of a woman in ragged undergarments from a workroom that was shared by everyone. I did this late at night, to avoid arguments. No one noticed for weeks & I have never heard any more of the scornful, superior comments often made about the woman in the poster. Of course, it used to serve the purpose of identifying the misogynists fairly quickly. Now I am left in blissful ignorance. --Judy McMullan